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A Better Way to Say No 拒絕,還有更好的方法

「不」、「謝謝,不了」、「現在不行」、「抱歉,我就是辦不到」,這些字很簡單不是嗎?但要說「不」,很多時候並非那麼簡單。當然,如果你不能或不想做某些事,說「不」很重要,但要訣是,說的時候不要顯得無禮或冒犯到別人。

No. No thanks. Not right now. Sorry, I just can't do it. Simple enough words aren't they? Saying "No" though, is not always that simple. Of course, if we can't, or don't want to do something, it's important to say no, but the trick is, to say it without seeming rude or offending someone.

「不」、「謝謝,不了」、「現在不行」、「抱歉,我就是辦不到」,這些字很簡單不是嗎?但要說「不」,很多時候並非那麼簡單。當然, 如果你不能或不想做某些事,說「不」很重要,但要訣是,說的時候不要顯得無禮或冒犯到別人。

Let's say your boss wants you to do some extra work, but you have some personal commitments. First off try to avoid an abrupt, "No!" Not only is this rude, but it can sound confrontational and is likely to cause offence, and may even land you in hot water. In this case you might be better off apologising first and then giving a brief explanation as to why you're unable to do it. "Sorry, I'm afraid that I have to take care of some important issues."

假設你的老闆要你加班,但你有私人的要緊事情。首先,要避免突兀地說出:「不!」這樣不僅不禮貌,聽起來也會像要槓上對方而引起反感 ,甚至讓你陷入麻煩。這種情況下,你最好先用道歉開始,然後簡短解釋為什麼沒辦法。「抱歉,我恐怕要去處理其他重要事情。」

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