「我已經放棄追求完美,那是我不再覺得有趣的概念。」安海瑟薇值得學習的15句人生語錄
1、關於女性
「有個男人曾經對我說,作為女人我很自以為是。而我對他說,『作為男人,你有點愚蠢。』」
"A man told me that for a woman, I was very opinionated. I said, ’for a man you’re kind of ignorant’."
2、關於平等
「我一直以來都非常相信平等的價值。從來沒有人能跟我說,因為我是個女孩,所以有些事我不能做。」
"I believe I’ve always been a big believer in equality. No one has ever been able to tell me I couldn’t do something because I was a girl."
3、關於機會
「我不將任何事視為理所當然。我曾得到絕佳的機會,但我也為了得到好機會而奮鬥。所以我不相信機會只是剛好湊巧發生在人的身上。你需要一直去提醒其他人你在這裡,你有能力可以做事,且甚至可能還蘊藏著一些他人無法想像的能力。」
"I don’t take anything for granted. I’ve been given extraordinary opportunities, I’ve also fought for extraordinary opportunities. So I don’t believe you’;re ever just there in this golden moment. You probably always have to remind people that you’re there, that you have something to offer, maybe something beyond what they could imagine for you."
4、關於工作
「關於工作最棒的部分就是,在剛開始時,你絕不知道你將會從中學到什麼。」
"The best part about working is that you never know what you’re going to learn when you start out."
5、關於完美
「很久以前我就已放棄追求完美。那是一個我已經不再覺得有趣的概念。現在大家都只想在照片裡看起來完美無缺,我想這大概是壓力的來源之一。快樂地做自己,生活裡還有很多美好的事物可以追求!」
"I gave up my struggle with perfection a long time ago. That is a concept I don’t find very interesting anymore. Everyone just wants to look good in the photographs. I think that is where some of the pressure comes from. Be happy. Be yourself, the day is about a lot more."
6、關於放鬆
「你只是個人,你不需要時時刻刻都保持得有條有理。」
"You’re only human. You don’t have to have it together every minute of the day."
7、關於人生
「你不能為了取悅他人而活,選擇應該為自己而做。」
"You cannot live your life to please others. The choice must be yours."
8、關於態度
「你應該要記得,人生裡,負面之中也包含著一點正面,正面中也包含了一點負面。」
"But you have to remember in life that there’s a positive to every negative and a negative to every positive."
9、關於未知
「如今,人生對我來說很大一部分就是努力讓未知變得美好。」
"Life for me these days is a lot about letting the unknown be wonderful."
10、關於生活
「我懷著愛與同情心生活,我希望所有人都能過得好,無論他們對我的看法是如何。而當你以這樣的方式生活,你會發現每天都令人驚訝的美好!」
"I live my life with love. I live my life with compassion. I live my life hoping the best for absolutely everyone, no matter how they feel about me. And when you live that way, it’s amazing how beautiful every day can be."
11、關於愛情
「一段不好的戀愛經驗不應該成為害怕展開新戀情的原因。」
"A bad love experience is no reason to fear a new love experience."
12、關於親密關係
「每個人都曾有過不好的關係,但到了最後,這些不好的經驗都將引導你到一段美好的關係。」
"Everybody has bad relationships and, at the end of the day, they are just a great way to set yourself up for a good relationship."
13、關於身材
「每當有人稱我為『普通的』女孩... 在好萊塢那代表著『胖』... 但我的身材就是這樣,比起瘦,我更希望自己是強壯的。」